Why are you willing to have competitive mixed matches with guys? Most girls refuse because some guy will take it too far or the guy doesn't have proper training will hurt them by not knowing how to properly apply a hold.

I used to have a very hard time with those types of matches, but I kept learning (I am still learning) and now I can (at the very least) control the person better so I don't get hurt. . . I only do competitive matches with men up to 200# with no restrictions, generally. . over two hundred they aren't allowed to lay on me or 'll just tap. .

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